Anti-Friends

as mr liew says.. every essay shld have a balance! so every blog post shld have a balance too LOL! so when there are friends, there are ofcourse anti-friends! which simply means the opposite of friends, theoretically..

ok wad are anti-friends? they are simply people that despise/hate/ignore/shunt you~ and most of the time this happens.. to almost everyone! ppl make anti-friends sometimes because of their behavior/attitude and in the long run.. others just dun like them or find these kind of ppl excessively irritating, those anti-friends can be forgiven.

but there are others, who despise/hate/ignore/shunt etc etc.. people because of just one thing they did/say or because they found out about the past or something.. thats just myopic.. ofcourse, many of us are guilty of something like that.. someone from our class might be a victim of us treating him that way just because of something hes done.. we are wrong for doing so though.. we are more guilty than he is! like some chinese saying go, only in the toughest of times will one show its real character.. and so everyone shld be given more time and even more a second chance~ we were all guilty, but we can make ammends.. at least i dun exactly shunt him anymore just say jokes about him haha and the rest shld too..

and then theres the worst of all.. ppl who despise/hate/ignore/shunt others but do not show it.. wad we call the 2-faced monsters! in the first place, it is morally wrong, to judge people in such a myopic way.. and to add on to that they dun exactly show it.. but yet rediculously obvious.. epic fail 2 face i would say! if wanna act act all the way! (and omg a fly just landed on my hand smack smack!) LOL ok these kind of ppl simply have a dogmatic mindset.. they think they are absolutely right, and they are better than others.. humans shld exercise equity to a certain level, people who cannot stand ppl, let alone a bunch of ppl, for some small things they do or simply because they have differing views and diff attitudes cannot be leaders. A certain level of EQ must be maintained but honesty and communication is always the best solution.. everyone benefits!

bleh this post is so boring.. stupid gp lesson inpired me to write gp essays! LOL im dying writing these boring view points alr~ faster mark my AQ!! anyway.. in conclusion, friendships and bonds are ruin because of anti friends.. and when put into a large scale can greatly segregate a certain group into 2 groups or many other clusters.. which is always a bad thing.. (wanna talk about disEoS but LOL irrelevant!) They key solution i still stand would be honesty and communication. its best to be honest to everyone and tell them wad we all feel for them to change for the better and would hence cause anti-friends to be built less and definitely much stronger communicative friendships! =)

great AQ charlton! 6/8 weeee im gonna ace GP! next post shall be about maths LOL!! (just joking but i might just do one for every subject! v tempted to do econs and chem~~) 8 more days hahaha and im no where near prepared~~ luckily the time table rox there are breaks in b/w! perfect for late gamers like me =P jy everybody dun let small things ruin the day! and do show ur care and concern to ur frens! :D

heres a meaningful MV that friendship can be maintained through any medium possible. =) (and yea jay chou :D)